Be sure to give them reading resources! The more one knows the less frightening it is. I had to find my own resources, and by accident, stumbled across the ALS book series available free from the ALSA. My ex-neurologist didn’t, or wouldn’t, answer my initial question”what can i expect?”, as well as other basic questions i had. Instead he told us to rent and watch the Steve Gleason movie, which was horrifying, I am fortunate in having the support of my very small, rural community and they’ve organized themselves into my Care Team, mostly doing tube feedings, which gives my husband a 1 hour break twice a day. And don’t forget Caregivers – they need support, too.
ALSO GET THEM LINED OUT WITH LOCAL RESOURCES – medical, physical, emotional and social.