Pepper de Callier
Forum Replies Created
-
Thanks so much. Pepper
-
Pepper de Callier
MemberJune 25, 2021 at 2:11 am in reply to: Do people treat you differently because of ALS?Well said, Len!  This is the kind of acceptance and perspective that can bring so much happiness and fulfillment to us. Thanks so much for sharing this.
-
Pepper de Callier
MemberJune 24, 2021 at 1:33 am in reply to: Do people treat you differently because of ALS?Call me an eternal optimist, but we need to focus more on more positive stuff. Yes, these things happen to all of us and will continue, but it’s how we react that makes our journey a fulfilled or demoralizing one. It is our choice to be the master or the slave of our condition. Face it, we are life warriors. We live with challenges every day that “they” will never comprehend. But we do. This is what I choose to think about. We know that our eyes become a screen onto which our thoughts are projected. Think about how proud one feels to be a life warrior and let others see that in us.
-
Thank you, Elaine. I’ll look into that. Pepper
-
Thank you, Marianne. Yes, it was a bit scary, but it taught me that I shouldn’t be going anywhere alone. Best–Pepper
-
Thanks so much! All of the responses have been very helpful!
-
Pepper de Callier
MemberJune 21, 2021 at 10:43 am in reply to: Do people treat you differently because of ALS?Dear Kathy, I am a pALS, diagnosed about 18 months ago. My speech is getting pretty bad. I have customer care people hang up on me when I try to tell them the reason for my calling. It is an isolating feeling, indeed, but I have something I do every morning that helps me. When I open the shower door to get in, it’s become automatic that I think about what I am grateful for today. By doing this, I am not denying my ALS, but I am putting it in perspective. More often than not, it helps set a more positive mindset for the day. Someone wiser than I once said that the only thing we have control over in life is our reaction to our circumstances. This is how I react. I hope this may give you an idea or two for yourself. I am learning now, more than ever, the wisdom of living one day at a time. All the best–Pepper