“Kristin, if you can’t choose joy for yourself, then do it so Todd’s remaining days and years won’t be miserable,”…
Kristin Neva
Kristin Neva is an author, mother of two, and caregiver for her husband, Todd, who was diagnosed with ALS in 2010 when he was 39 years old. Knowing they would need family support, they moved to Upper Michigan and built an accessible home on property next to Kristin’s childhood home. Kristin enjoys spending time outdoors, especially on the shore of Lake Superior in the summer. Todd no longer has use of his limbs, but he stays active working on projects on his computer using adaptive technology. They try to find joy in the midst of sorrow as Todd’s health declines.
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Articles by Kristin Neva
As I left our house to get the kids from school, the tree was gone. A contractor’s crew was removing…
Every Memorial Day, I go with my mom, daughter, and son to the Lakeside Cemetery in Hancock, Michigan, to attend…
Last week, my husband, Todd, considered canceling a dentist appointment to get a crown placed over a broken tooth. “Is…
A couple weeks ago, when my husband, Todd, told me he wasn’t going to attend our kids’ end-of-the-year events at…
In the summer of 2010, my husband, Todd, stopped at the mall after work. It was my birthday, and he…
A couple weeks ago, one of our toilet tanks developed a crack and started leaking. I turned off the water,…
Living With ALS Takes Courage
Editor’s note: This column discusses suicide. Please find resources for help at the end of the column. In the…
Author and counselor Douglas C. Smith wrote in Health and Happiness U.P. Magazine about five types of grief people…
My husband, Todd, gets twice-weekly physical therapy, which significantly improves his quality of life with ALS. Six years ago, Todd…