3 Things I Would Do Differently If Diagnosed Today

3 Things I Would Do Differently If Diagnosed Today
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I’m often asked by others in the ALS community for tips and insight from my past 10 years of living with ALS. While I am grateful for both making it this far while maintaining most of my physical abilities, I am by no means an expert.

ALS symptoms differ from person to person; it’s unpredictable, and each of us are on our own journey with the disease.

However, we learn from one another, and I’m always willing to share. So, following are three things I would do differently if I were diagnosed with ALS today:

Adapt to using a rollator much sooner

One of my early ALS symptoms was foot drop. This is a weakness in the lower leg muscles that had me dragging the toe of my shoe with every step I took. In turn, this led to a few nasty falls. Of course, I tried to cover up what was happening by grabbing onto nearby furniture and walls.

Eventually, I decided to use a walking cane. But I still fell. It took the good part of a year before I agreed to use a rollator. Why? Mostly, I was embarrassed. I had the mindset that rollators were for old people, and if I used one my friends would avoid being seen with me.

Looking back, at the very first sign of unsteadiness, I should have transitioned straight into using a rollator and not wasted all those months with a rinky-dink cheap model that was meant for temporary use. I now rely on a bright red, sturdy rollator with big wheels — they can see me coming!

I’ve learned to love my rollator; it helps me walk with better posture, and surprise, surprise: My friends don’t mind at all.

Tell anyone and everyone

Shortly after my doctor told me I had ALS, I knew I needed to share the news with family members and friends. But I hemmed, hawed, and hesitated for many reasons, including confronting the reality of my diagnosis. I knew that when I told others about my ALS it would become real — and I would have to accept that I had ALS.

I had to conquer the gap between diagnosis and acceptance. Plus, I didn’t recognize that my friends and family would be my closest allies. They were eager to offer their support but were confused about what to do.

A decade ago, there were far fewer resources on these topics, and fortunately, that has changed. Now, I recommend the article, “Sharing Your Diagnosis,” from the ALS Association’s Texas Chapter, along with my previous column about helping your friends learn how to help you.

Change the way I exercised

As my muscles weakened, I tried to keep at my traditional exercise routines. But soon I gave in to doing just the “easy stuff.” For example, walking slowly in chest-high water without having to fight gravity felt so good. But it wasn’t helping my body train for the rest of my day — a day filled with gravity.

I had to challenge my muscles with gentle, consistent movement. Now I practice range-of-motion exercises daily, based on fundamental movements taught by the strength and movement specialist company Original Strength. I also do modified yoga, Pilates, and gymnastics moves.

Rather than attempt an hour of exercise and end up exhausted, I spread it out throughout the day. Several preplanned movement breaks help keep my energy up and my mind alert.

We all recognize there are things we would do differently if we could. There are no failures with ALS. The winners are those who’ve been willing to try.

Sure, if I could go back in time, I’d do these three things differently, but I kept going. And I’m willing to help others through my experiences, because I believe that together, we can learn to live well while living with ALS.

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When Dagmar was diagnosed with ALS at the age of 59 in 2010, she tapped into her nearly 30 years of professional experience. She not only follows her own wellness and fitness advice but also inspires and teaches others to do the same. Dagmar is a patient columnist at BioNews, writing “Living Well with ALS.” In addition, she is one of the moderators for the ALS News Today Forum and writes a personal blog called “ALS and Wellness.” She lives in Arizona, enjoying finding humor in life’s situations, and spends her free time pursuing creative projects in fiber arts.
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When Dagmar was diagnosed with ALS at the age of 59 in 2010, she tapped into her nearly 30 years of professional experience. She not only follows her own wellness and fitness advice but also inspires and teaches others to do the same. Dagmar is a patient columnist at BioNews, writing “Living Well with ALS.” In addition, she is one of the moderators for the ALS News Today Forum and writes a personal blog called “ALS and Wellness.” She lives in Arizona, enjoying finding humor in life’s situations, and spends her free time pursuing creative projects in fiber arts.

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8 comments

  1. james gans says:

    Thank you. That is encouraging for sure. I was diagnosed 4 months ago at age 68 with my right hand losing its strength. Now it’s my right arm and hand with some weakness entering my other arm. I am trying to continue with mild exercises including my exercise stair stepper.

  2. PERLY REDDISH says:

    My mum suffered from ALS for five years which started with twitching of her toes in her right foot and loosing the strength on her right leg which lead her to dragging it and to frequent falls. In the beginning no one could understand why could she not try to lift her leg or try harder, I guess even her did not understand what is going on as well. With our naivety with what is going on we do not know how to help and support her, we thought she is just not trying and becoming too dependent.. It is sad and it breaks my heart until now, I wish I knew, I wish I understood, but coming from a place where healthcare is only for the rich people, for only who can afford it, we failed my mum. Only now that she is gone I completely understood that it is ALS and what it does to a person. But my mum was great, she tried and she live for us. The laughter did not go away, her memory that is as sharp as a knife, even though we can see her body continuously deteriorating and wasting away.. She tried, for as long as she can. I love her very much, but I know she is with me where ever I go.

  3. Janet Vickery says:

    This time of year, I am more or less confined to the house. I am so afraid of falling. Been there. Done that. Major fracture of my left ankle. I was diagnosed in 2010. It’s considered a slow version. My sister’s was aggressive and she was gone within three years. I use a cane, always. I also use a walker and have a wheel chair for appointments, etc. There are things that I can do, opening jars with a rubber sheet I have a scooter for warmer days and pens with grips, for writing. There are good days but there are also bad. One day at a time. Thank you for your words and the fact that some times I feel guilty that my ALS is not faster. To know of some one else who has been around a while after your diagnosis helps.

  4. Nancy says:

    Most appreciative of your positive, helpful outlook & ideas, Dagmar.
    I know where to come for a reminder when needed! Your highlighted points which take me to more info on that topic, are a wonderful way of encompassing lots of info in one sitting. Thank you!!

  5. Trish Killian says:

    At my sons house you have to go up 12-15 stairs to get to the main level. We have a metal ramp , but it won’t work for that many steps????
    Help I want to visit his family and see my precious grandchildren.
    Thank y’all

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