Why I named my column ‘Living Well with ALS’

An explainer to highlight the deeper meaning behind the title

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by Dagmar Munn |

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I named my column “Living Well with ALS” for many reasons. The most important one was that each word in the title had a deep meaning for me.

Six years ago, when Bionews, the parent company of this website, invited me to write a patient column for ALS News Today, my mind went through a roller coaster of emotions. I was flattered to be picked, excited to share my message, and worried I’d soon run out of topics to write about. Fast forward to today, and over 300 columns later, I’m still writing and have more words to share. But I still believe the most powerful words for my readers are in the title of this column.

Before I was diagnosed with ALS in 2010, my life was humming along just fine. I participated in gymnastics during my early years, received a master’s degree in dance, and spent 30 years teaching community wellness and mind-body health classes through our hospital’s outreach program. I thought I’d be fit and moving with ease for the rest of my life.

Being told I had ALS was shocking. But I couldn’t deny my symptoms of weak legs and feet, and an overall feeling of stiffness. I decided to follow the same wellness principles I’d taught years earlier and cobbled together a daily routine and life philosophy that helped me feel healthy despite having ALS. I began writing about experiences in my ALS and Wellness Blog, which in turn led to an editor from Bionews contacting me.

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Living

I felt it was important to take a positive stance within the ALS community, to counter the prevailing attitudes I observed the year I was diagnosed. It seemed that everything I read implied that if a person has ALS, then they must be depressed and have a low quality of life, and death will come quickly. Patients often left their doctor’s office imagining end-of-the-world, worst-case scenarios of their disease, and most of the patient memoirs and blogs chronicled the downward spiral of their life. I felt a strong need to tell the other side, to give ALS patients permission to feel OK, to acknowledge their disease while recognizing the good days, too.

Additionally, I believe what we tell ourselves about ourselves matters. The same goes for what we read. So, for me, the word “living” also denotes a positive image. I like knowing that my readers receive positive, helpful information from me while the word “living” is being imprinted in their psyche.

Well

I don’t use the word “well” to denote being well-off financially or socially. It has nothing to do with status. Instead, it’s a shortened version of, well, wellness.

Even though current trends in our body-conscious society encourage us to connect optimal health with diet, exercise, and looking young, my previous wellness models taught that high-level wellness or optimal living can be achieved even by those considered “unwell” — especially when judged on their age or life condition.

Being well is achieving quality of life. We can have optimal wellness even though we’re sitting in a wheelchair, or pushing a rollator, or have a genetic condition, or have ALS.

With

The word “with” represents coexistence. ALS does not dominate my life or consume my thoughts. I don’t see it as an outside enemy attacking my body. It is my body producing a condition that I have to learn to live with. Therefore, I live with ALS.

No, I live well with ALS.

Thank you, readers, for following me and for your support these past six years. I look forward to writing many more columns and sharing my ALS experiences with you. Now you know why my column and my sign-off always include the words “living well with ALS.”


Note: ALS News Today is strictly a news and information website about the disease. It does not provide medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. This content is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have read on this website. The opinions expressed in this column are not those of ALS News Today or its parent company, Bionews, and are intended to spark discussion about issues pertaining to ALS.

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Ann Jost

Dagmar, thank you so much for your positivity! My husband passed from ALS 3 1/2 yrs ago and there wasn't much positivity from any healthcare provider, even if they acknowledged he had ALS. It was just maintenance for a withering body. Unfortunately, he only lived 1 1/2 yrs after his official diagnosis (no one wanted to acknowledge he had ALS) and had major setbacks which I won't go into. I was so glad I was able to keep him at home the whole time until the last 10 days when he went into Hospice care. Keep up your good work encouraging ALS survivors. They need hope!

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Dagmar Munn

I am sorry to read that you lost your husband to ALS. It sounds like you did your best to provide him with support and love. Thank you for your kind compliments on my columns. I wish you all the best and send comforting hugs. Dagmar

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Melody

Thank you Dagmar for all you do by providing us with information, inspiration, and all around joy as I learn to live fully with a Neuro degenerative disease. You are an example of what it means to lean into life’s challenges. I am & will always be grateful to you & your fellow writers!

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Dagmar Munn

Melody, I thank you and wish you well in 2025.

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Robert Figuereo

Thank You. Happy New Year!!!

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Dagmar Munn

Happy New Year to you too, Roberto!

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David Rothschild

You have been extremely fortunate with your ALS. Perhaps you take better care of yourself you have a different form., or you have been very lucky. I certainly wish you well.

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Robert Daniels

THANK YOU for your words of wisdom

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Joyce Schlegel

Diagnosed with Bulbar ALS 12/8/2023, at the age of 80.
Also diagnosed with AL Amyloidosis on 9/8/2023.
First symptom of slurred speech occurred in March, 2022 but had no idea it would lead to ALS. I still to to Speech Therapy almost weekly.
Happy to write more abouy my situation, but not enough space to type my story & then be able to review what I typed before Posting my comments. Sorrt this stort is incomplete.

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Dagmar Munn

Joyce, why don't you join us over in the ALS News Today Forum? We would love to read your story and journey with ALS. There are lots of friendly ALS patients and plenty of space to write. https://alsnewstoday.com/forums
Best, Dagmar

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Jacqui C

Thankfully, I found you earlier in my diagnosis. I’m 5 years past first symptoms and approaching 2 1/2 years past diagnosis and your thoughts, experiences & suggestions have been hugely valuable. Thank you Dagmar!

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Dagmar Munn

Congratulations on your 5 years Jacqui! And thank you for your kudos. I believe we all inspire each other. Live well and long, my friend ;-)

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